Saturday, November 13, 2010

Why Men Love BITCHES


I am a firm believer that all women should read this book.  I've purchased many copies over the last few years & given it to girlfriends who are in a bad relationship or having self esteem issues.   This book literally changed how I viewed dating & relationships, as I was once TOO NICE.  Now, I understand that men love the chase & you are a prize.  When you shower him with affection instantly & are too available, you're no longer the viewed as a prize in his eyes.  Make him work for everything you give him & he'll cherish everything he's receives.  

Some of my favorite principles:

Attraction Principle #3: A woman is perceived as offering a mental challenge to the degree that a man doesn’t feel he has a 100% hold on her.
Attraction Principle #8: The biggest variable between a bitch and a woman who is too nice is fear. The bitch shows that she’s not afraid to be without him.
Attraction Principle #15: Whenever a woman requires too many things from a man, he’ll resent it. Let him give what he wants to give freely; then observe who he is.
Attraction Principle #20: He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him. Only then will he perceive you as an equal partner.
Attraction Principle #33: When you cater to his ego in a soft way, he doesn’t try to get power in an aggressive way.
Attraction Principle #36: The token power position is for public display, but the true power position is for private viewing only. And this is the only one that matters.
Attraction Principle #50: The nice girl gives away too much of herself when pleasing him regularly becomes more important than pleasing herself.
Attraction Principle #52: When you nag, he tunes you out. But when you speak with your actions, he pays attention.
Attraction Principle #77: You have to show that you won’t accept mistreatment. Then you will keep his respect.
Attraction Principle #100: The most attractive quality of all is dignity.


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